Sunday, October 3, 2010

When Do You Need a Divorce?

One of the most difficult question anyone can face in their life is 'How to know when you need a divorce?' After all, on the day you decided to get married, you never wanted to imagine that one day, you would end up considering divorce. We all want a marriage that lasts forever but it is not always possible.

So, to help you make a decision about whether you need a divorce, First, here are 10 good reasons to end a marriage, as well as a list of 7 questions you need to ask yourself before making a firm decision about divorce.

10 Good Reasons To End A Marriage And Get A Divorce

1. Physical Abuse
2. Sexual Abuse
3. Verbal Abuse
4. Emotional Abuse
5. Child Abuse
6. Serial Adultery
7. Inability To Forgive Each Other
8. Alcohol Addiction
9. Drug Addiction
10. When One Partner Chooses To Abandon Your Marriage

If you are in a relationship that exhibits any of the signs above, you need to find the strength and courage to love yourself enough, and end your marriage. You and your children truly deserve better. Be honest with yourself and imagine what your marriage and life will look like 5 years from now if you continue in this marriage? Is this what you truly want?

Please don't just keep doing the same thing everyday, hoping for things to be different. For things to change, you must change first. Start by being brutally honest with yourself. The truth can't hurt you because it is only a thought. One important thing you need to be aware of is this: Being single won't guarantee that you will be happier than you are now. Happiness is a state of mind that only you can give yourself.

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